Women's Health Articles

I sometimes speak in a politically incorrect way. I have to be honest, frank, even outrageous with you. I can?t try to cover my little ass, saying politically correct things so that no one gets upset. I am not politically correct, but I am practically correct, suggesting you to do what works, what is practical, what makes you more beautiful, sexy, and feminine in order to attract and keep your own masculine Good Man.

I?ve dealt approvingly with some Asian Geisha stereotypes if I found them helpful. I?ve told you to be thin not fat, pretty not plain, accepting not confrontational. I?ve told you that in relationships men are simple, visual, sexual beings who do most anything to make you happy when you make them sexually happy. Even as I have happily accepted some useful stereotypes of Asian Geisha and other women, if other stereotypes are not useful, I encouraged you to ignore or change them in your thinking or actions, as I did.

Still, some strict feminists have questioned my outrageous ideas and feminine and sexy tips for attracting men. An American Geisha is not a strict feminist, except in the world of work and career. In the world of love and romance, I suggest that you shift your perspective to that of a feminine-ist, a woman who values, loves, and wants to operate out of her femininity.

In a sense, in your work world you must insist upon being treated like ?one of the boys,? treated equally with the men. However, in your personal world, you do not want to be one of the boys. You want to be very different from the boys, very feminine in contrast to their masculinity. Be a feminist while making a living, and be a feminine-ist while making (or seeking) love. As a feminist, compete fairly with men at work; then, come home and attract men to you as a feminine-ist.

As much as some feminists may have problems with me, I have no problems with feminists. All women need the feminist backbone that can allow them to be feminine without being weak or passive, to be nice without being taken advantage of. The American Geisha develops within herself a comfortable balance between feminist and feminine-ist qualities.